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Different sort of man !


I received an email from a guy who was rather different from the type of guy who I am usually attracted to but because I think it is only polite to reply I sent him a brief email back and after reading the diary entries,  logged offline and went to bed.

The day after when I logged on again, I noticed there was another email from him again and once again I was drawn to his profile.

Aged 61 5ft 10 divorced, worked in the medical profession.  The only other words simply said :  Looking for my soul mate.

I studied his photograph thinking he is not the type of man I would go for at all but something was drawing me to him which I could not explain.

He had sent me a lovely email telling me a bit more about himself and asking me questions about my life and interests. We both were quite spiritual and had the same interests and likes and dislikes. But I just could not get past the fact that I did not instantly think wow he looks good.

Now not everyone takes a good photograph this much I do know. But there was still something that was pulling me towards him.

I sent him a friendly email back and that’s how we communicated for the next week ping pong emails. After the first week he asked me for my phone number which I gave freely because I really liked his personality he was great fun and made me laugh out loud.

He text me the next day asking if I was having a good day and said would it be okay for him to ring later that  night. I text back and said yes it would be okay for him to give me a call later.

I looked at his profile again and noted that he had been looking at mine. I was feeling nervous but yet excited about taking to him on the phone,

At 8.30pm my mobile rang and I immediately saw on the screen it was him. I took a deep breath and pick up the phone and said “Hello”

“Hi Elaine” came back a really deep voice hmm nice voice I thought, the sort I could meditate to quite easily.

We chatted for about half an hour about this and that and then he asked me if I would like to meet for a coffee  the following weekend and I agreed but strictly as friends only. He laughed at this and said fine no problem, so we arranged to meet in a local garden centre the following Saturday.

Saturday arrived, I did not go overboard I just pulled on a pair of jeans and a white blouse and brushed my hair and put on a bit of lipstick, then set off to meet my new found friend.

I arrived at the garden center early so I was looking at the water features when I heard a deep voice say.

” Hi Elaine ” I turned round slowly to meet my new found friend:

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