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Who should make the first move?


After logging on to the Mature Free and Single website I noticed that once again I had been viewed by one particular man, everyday he looked at my profile but never made any contact. I wondered if he was shy or if was plucking up courage to send me a wink or maybe send me an email message.

I decided that I would start looking at his profile everyday, then he would be aware that I had noticed that he was looking at me. For the next few days I viewed his profile and he viewed mine and then suddenly I got a wink

Result at last a wink, I waited an hour or so then winked back (I did not want to seem too keen) even if I was. I had another sneaky look and noticed that he had gone offline. Ah well tomorrows another day. I quickly penned a diary entry then logged off and went to bed.

The next evening I logged on and went straight into my emails to see if he had sent me a message, nothing! I looked to see if he had looked at my profile and he had, I also noted that he had been online earlier because he had done a diary entry.

Who should make the first move, ha ha I thought, very funny.  His diary entry continued: In this day of equality should the man make the first move and contact a woman online or should it be the woman who contacts the man?

 Now I am of the mind that if a man contacts a woman he is keen, where as if a woman contacts a man, he may think, ah well she looks okay so I might as well go out with her.

No I thought I will wait to see if he contacts me. Shortly after reading his diary entry I noticed he viewed my profile again. I smiled to myself and thought yes I know your there but this lady is waiting to be asked.

I decided that I was going to write a diary entry saying that a woman liked to be perused by a man clicked the sent button and almost immediately it was approved and online. Now this back fired on me slightly as I instantly got a few emails from the cheeky older members saying hey lass if you want a night out I will take you out for a pie and a pint.

I replied politely saying thanks for the offer but I am waiting for one man in particular to ask me out.  It got quite late and as I had to be up early in the morning I logged off and went to bed.

I tossed and turned all night thinking why is he not emailing me he had winked at me, but he had not emailed. It was very strange. Hmm, perhaps there was a little bit of a battle of wills going on here.

To be continued:

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